5 Things To Put On Your Kinky Bucket List

Bondage

Silk scarves, a pair of work ties, fluffy cuffs, a leather belt… and the list is endless. If you’re looking to thrill her in the bedroom, there’s no better place to start. You don’t even have to tie her to the bedpost! Try tying her hands in front of her for the first encounter to see if she likes it, and if she does, go forth and have your wicked way with her. Want to turn the tables? Let your girlfriend tie you up and watch as she makes good on her revenge!

Tip: It’s best to start out simple and work your way up. There’s no point buying an expensive pair of handcuffs, only to find your partner won’t wear them. Go with soft and gentle, and if she’s making the right noises that’s your cue to upgrade your toy box.

Spanking

Spanking is almost mainstream now, and if you haven’t had a go at it – why not? If your partner’s up for this one, you can try all sorts of things. Bend her over the kitchen table, the bed, a dining room chair, or go with a more traditional flair and have her draped over your lap. Always start gently, but if things go well you can increase the tempo and pressure. The aim is to get her endorphins flowing and blood pressure rocketing. If she needs convincing, go slow and reward her. For each three spanks, she can pick a spot where she’d like you to play with her. Twice the fun, for the same price!

Food Play

There are definite perks to food play. You can use your partner as your dessert canvas, for starters. There is so much choice – whipped cream, chocolate sauce, sprinkles, honey, bananas – the only limit is your own imagination. If she’s ticklish though, you’re going to have your work cut out for you!

Tip: Experiment with different textures and temperatures. Drizzle champagne down her belly and lick it up slowly, or smear warm chocolate sauce on a body part of her choosing and lap it up with your tongue. If you want to add some Michelin stars to your creation, decorate with sprinkles, whipped cream and cherries. Although you get to eat your creation, you can always share a little with her. Sharing is caring, after all.

Clothespins

Before you try this one, test the strength of the clothespin out on yourself first. Plastic ones tend to be meaner than wooden ones. When you’re satisfied that she’ll be able to bear your new brand of torture, you can begin. Try fastening them to an ear lobe, a nipple, the underside of an arm, or around the breast area. See how long she can withstand your devilish torment before she begs for them to be removed. Don’t be too mean, though. She might turn the tables on you!

Tip: Clothespins should never be left on the body for longer than fifteen minutes, and if they’re particularly fierce ones, caution should be used. Oh, and always offer to kiss the clamped area to make it better.

Kinky Role Play

Doctors and nurses can be a whole lotta fun now that you’re an adult. Have fun shopping through a sex catalogue and pick your outfits together. To get you started with a few ideas, try naughty schoolgirl and teacher, boss and secretary, or French maid and aristocrat. Plan the scene in your head and experiment. Remember to ramp up the anticipation of the scene by texting some naughty snippets of what you’re going to be doing to your partner beforehand. The anticipation will drive her wild. If you really want to have some fun, try dressing her up as a traffic cop. She’s just put a ticket on your car – what are you going to do with her? Remember, she’s got handcuffs!

SAFETY FIRST

Kinky play should only be considered by consenting adults. You’ve both got to want to try it, or it won’t be fun. At the onset of a scene, always make sure that there is a safe word in order to stop ‘play’ if your partner becomes uncomfortable. Always read up on the type of play you’re about to engage in, and make sure that you’ve observed all safety precautions. Kink is awesome, but only if you do it the right way!

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