Lifestyle

How to Tease Her in Public

If you want to spice up your sex life outside of the bedroom, there’s nothing better than a little ‘public’ foreplay. Whilst actually having sex in public is illegal in most countries, no one’s going to be any the wiser if you have a little undercover fun. Just remember to pace yourselves, and have a […]

Choosing the Perfect Safeword

Although I always recommend using a safeword in my writings about BDSM, I confess that I had never actually used one myself. That is to say, a word or phrase to stop the game. It is advisable to avoid words like ‘stop’ or ‘no’. The most common option is a traffic light system: ‘red’ (stop) […]

My Fantasies with a Much Older Man

‘When I look in the mirror I see an old man. A grandfather. I feel like I’m well and truly past it.’ This is what a good friend who has recently retired told me over lunch as he was lamenting the inevitable aging process. ‘Don’t be silly,’ I said. ‘Do you think Jeremy Irons would […]

The English Vice

If you’ve recently found yourself fascinated by BDSM, you’re probably pretty excited at the whole new world of kinky sex you’ve just uncovered. We’re in the twenty-first century and we’re having a sexual revolution. It’s time to celebrate! But wait – we’re not the only era in history to have had an interest in kink. […]

The Day I Participated in a Professional BDSM Session

I make no secret that I love FemDom. I am always in charge, even during conventional vanilla sex. My unapologetic displays of my dominant desires have led to a predictable phenomenon; I have been receiving numerous unsolicited requests from submissive men who are only too anxious to serve me. This is happening a lot lately. […]

Introducing the BDSM ‘Play Party’

You don’t need to be into hard-core BDSM to enjoy yourself at a Play Party. Whilst these are private events, and often hosted from the comfort of someone’s home, they are generally friendly to both beginners and experienced players alike. As the name suggests, there will be public play, and you can expect to see […]

Zentai Fantasies

At this moment I should be working on an article but I’m thinking about zentai instead. In fact, I just can’t seem to get it out of my mind. And it has been like this ever since I came across this kink. For those who are still unaware of it, zentai is a Japanese term […]

Why Women Love Alpha Males

It’s no secret that women love alpha males. Read any old romance book and the hero of the story is nearly always an alpha. The list is almost endless; James Bond, Jack Bauer, John McClane, Martin Riggs, Harrison Ford… these are the types of alphas that make women go weak at the knees. The question […]

My First Whip

They say that you never forget the first time. That is very true. I will never forget buying my first whip when I was still a fresher at university. On reflection, I still feel more than a little bit guilty about spending a significant portion of my student grant – courtesy of Her Majesty The […]

How To Make Your Own Pervertibles

What Is A Pervertible? It’s when you make sex toys out of items commonly found at home. David Stein kindly gave us this word to describe ordinary household objects used for extraordinary purposes. If you can’t afford to splash the cash like billionaire businessman Christian Grey, from Fifty Shades of Grey, then we have good […]