Lifestyle

What is Sploshing?

Sploshing is a wet and messy fetishism, or WAM for short. In the last few years it’s become rather fashionable, and even Christina Aguilera has had a go with a deliciously naughty cake scene. In a nutshell, sploshing is food play and it’s where people become aroused when lots of wet, sticky, bubbly, rough or […]

5 Things To Put On Your Kinky Bucket List

Bondage Silk scarves, a pair of work ties, fluffy cuffs, a leather belt… and the list is endless. If you’re looking to thrill her in the bedroom, there’s no better place to start. You don’t even have to tie her to the bedpost! Try tying her hands in front of her for the first encounter […]

Medical Fetish Sexplorations

I wouldn’t say I was into the medical fetish. In fact, I absolutely cannot stand pain, blood or needles. Despite this, I remember one time when I was recovering from a knee operation… The presence of my stitches and a bandage meant that a potentially conventional shag became a truly memorable one. I had a […]

My BDSM Buddy

Sometimes I don’t realize the effect that I have on people. A few years ago I had a work colleague who was my partner in crime when I worked in real estate. He was married, happily, apparently, so he was never going to be a friend with benefits. Despite this, or perhaps because of it, […]

Weird and Wonderful Things That Turn Her On

Ever wonder why some guys have an edge over their friends in the dating department? It’s not all down to genetics and how attractive your bum looks in tight jeans. There’s a whole world of science behind what actually gets women wet… and why. A Moody Exterior Forget lavishing the woman of your dreams with […]

Confessions of an Unapologetic Narcissist with Balls

There’s nothing quite like an intense workout to express my auto-erotic tendencies. Is it a bad thing to get so turned on by oneself? I do wonder sometimes. But, then again, who really cares if it feels so good? That was precisely what was going through my head when I saw this gym ball on […]

Turning Pain into Pleasure

Pain receptors carry notification of physical discomfort to the brain. Pain perception, also referred to as nociception, will trigger the release of hormones throughout the body in response to painful stimuli. These hormones can act as pain relievers or they can give you an impulse to do something – such as a rush of adrenaline […]

Confessions of a Submissatrix

Topping from the bottom is a practice that is usually frowned upon in the BDSM world. But, when I am being a submissatrix – that is to say, a domineering sub – there are no frowns to be seen. Only happy faces are evident. This is because I do not pretend to be a sub […]

The Beginner’s Guide to Gags

Introducing a gag to a kinky sex scene is sometimes a little intimidating at first, especially if you’re presented with a ball gag from the get go. Whilst having your ability to speak taken away can be scary, it can also be incredibly erotic and here’s why: Why Wear A Gag? Wearing a gag increases […]

A Day in the Life of a Submissive Slave

Here’s A Sneak Peek Into The Life Of A Submissive Slave If you and your significant other have been enjoying the kinky side of sex for a while and are considering taking your D/S relationship to the next level, then you could consider an ‘around-the-clock’ or 24/7 style submission arrangement. This is where the dominant […]